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Sex Therapy – Online

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Dr Ali Taba – Senior Accredited Specialist in Sex and Relationship Therapy

Dr Ali Taba – Senior Accredited Specialist in Sex and Relationship TherapyDr Ali Taba – Senior Accredited Specialist in Sex and Relationship Therapy

Ideas

Here are some of the things you most likely hear in our therapy sessions.

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You are an exquisite musical instrument.

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

And only YOU can teach your partner how to play you.


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YOU ARE NOT A PENIS OR A VAGINA.

YOU ARE NOT A PENIS OR A VAGINA.

YOU ARE NOT A PENIS OR A VAGINA.

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

You're more complex. 

And, yes, this equally applies to men.


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GOOD ENOUGH IS perfect.

YOU ARE NOT A PENIS OR A VAGINA.

YOU ARE NOT A PENIS OR A VAGINA.

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

As long as you're happy.


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SEX IS NOT SNOOKER.

YOU ARE NOT A PENIS OR A VAGINA.

Erections don't always mean sexual excitement.

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

It's not just about getting it in!

There's more to sex than just intercourse.


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Erections don't always mean sexual excitement.

IF YOU can LAST FOR ONE MINUTE, YOU CAN LAST FOR 100 MINUTES.

Erections don't always mean sexual excitement.

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

Same for orgasms.


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'BAD' CAN BE GOOD,

IF YOU can LAST FOR ONE MINUTE, YOU CAN LAST FOR 100 MINUTES.

IF YOU can LAST FOR ONE MINUTE, YOU CAN LAST FOR 100 MINUTES.

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

... in sex; and reverse.


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IF YOU can LAST FOR ONE MINUTE, YOU CAN LAST FOR 100 MINUTES.

IF YOU can LAST FOR ONE MINUTE, YOU CAN LAST FOR 100 MINUTES.

IF YOU can LAST FOR ONE MINUTE, YOU CAN LAST FOR 100 MINUTES.

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

To: all men with 'Premature Ejaculation'.

(Please last responsibly!)


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Don't change.

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

Just upgrade.


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Every one of us is a sexual minority.

Every one of us is a sexual minority.

Every one of us is a sexual minority.

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

Every one of us has had a unique journey.

Every one of us has a unique story.


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Heterosexuality is complex.

Every one of us is a sexual minority.

Every one of us is a sexual minority.

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

It may be as much a commitment or a habit as it may be biologically driven.


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EVERYONE ELSE ISn't doing it all the time.

EVERYONE ELSE ISn't doing it all the time.

EVERYONE ELSE ISn't doing it all the time.

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

People have lives!


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Erections are not just for men.

EVERYONE ELSE ISn't doing it all the time.

EVERYONE ELSE ISn't doing it all the time.

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

Women have them too. Inside.


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A relationship is a full-time job.

EVERYONE ELSE ISn't doing it all the time.

A relationship is a full-time job.

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

And, therefore, a proper relationship is a proper full-time job. It takes time.


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3 GOLDEN RULES OF SEXUAL COMMUNICATION

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

  1. If you’re up for it, signal (don't try to mind-read your partner. But use common sense).
  2. If you’re not up for it, signal 'no' (and this isn't and shouldn't be seen as rejection).
  3. Once started, you can finish it at any point (again, use common sense. And taste).

T's & C's apply.


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The pleasing-man syndrome

The pleasing-woman syndrome

The pleasing-woman syndrome

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

A condition where a man has erectile and ejaculation difficulties during sex because he’s too focused on pleasing his partner. 

Take care of yourself. Be equally selfish AND caring. 


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The pleasing-woman syndrome

The pleasing-woman syndrome

The pleasing-woman syndrome

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

A condition where a woman doesn’t enjoy sex and doesn't (or rarely) reach orgasm during sex because she’s too focused on pleasing her partner.
Take care of yourself. Be equally selfish AND caring.

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LOSE YOUR ERECTION.

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

Make it happen yourself, instead of it happening to you.
Then gain the erection back.
Then gain control.

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no one 'gives' you an orgasm.

PLEASE STOP SAYING 'we make LOVE'

PLEASE STOP SAYING 'we make LOVE'

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

You 'reach' an orgasm.


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PLEASE STOP SAYING 'we make LOVE'

PLEASE STOP SAYING 'we make LOVE'

PLEASE STOP SAYING 'we make LOVE'

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

... when you don't know where the clitoris is.


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'abnormal'?

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

Or different?


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getting ready to fight? Or to make love?

There are 365 reasons why people have sex.

getting ready to fight? Or to make love?

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

Upcycle that temper!


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'ALL WOMEN LooooOVE MULTIPLE ORGASMS'.

There are 365 reasons why people have sex.

getting ready to fight? Or to make love?

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

Except many.


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There are 365 reasons why people have sex.

There are 365 reasons why people have sex.

There are 365 reasons why people have sex.

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

And only one of them is 'sexual desire'.


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We are not similar.

Good Sex is not instinctual.

There are 365 reasons why people have sex.

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

But equal.


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Good Sex is not instinctual.

Good Sex is not instinctual.

Good Sex is not instinctual.

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

It is art.


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'No pain, no gain.'

Good Sex is not instinctual.

Good Sex is not instinctual.

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

Except during sex.

(Consensual and responsible kink excluded)


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Who does whom?

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

The one with the penis isn't always the 'doer'. 

It's in the eye of the beholder.


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'Desire + Obstacle = Excitement'

Spontaneity in sex is overrated.

Spontaneity in sex is overrated.

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

Jack Morin (The Erotic Mind, 1996)


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Spontaneity in sex is overrated.

Spontaneity in sex is overrated.

Spontaneity in sex is overrated.

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

When was the last time you did something entirely spontaneously?

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sex is messy.

Spontaneity in sex is overrated.

YOUR BIGGEST SEXUAL APPLIANCE IS ...

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

In many ways. Learn how to enjoy it.


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YOUR BIGGEST SEXUAL APPLIANCE IS ...

YOUR BIGGEST SEXUAL APPLIANCE IS ...

YOUR BIGGEST SEXUAL APPLIANCE IS ...

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

... your sexual confidence; not that!

   
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let it go ... to 'come'!

YOUR BIGGEST SEXUAL APPLIANCE IS ...

It's less about what happened

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

Perfectionism is an enemy of sexual pleasure.


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It's less about what happened

YOUR BIGGEST SEXUAL APPLIANCE IS ...

It's less about what happened

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

and more about how it makes you feel now.


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Sexual pain isn't always your enemy.

making love is kind of like baking cakes.

making love is kind of like baking cakes.

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

Maybe she's trying to be a good friend, telling you:

"something bad is happening. Be careful!".


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making love is kind of like baking cakes.

making love is kind of like baking cakes.

making love is kind of like baking cakes.

you're not ALWAYS up for it; some people are more/less interested in it than their partners; and that's very normal!


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Lock yourself in an exclusive space with your partner,

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

... where everything around turns you on, and nothing exists outside.


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Anything that happens in your life can be hanging from your penis.

Anything that happens in your life can be hanging from your penis.

Anything that happens in your life can be hanging from your penis.

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

In understanding erectile problems, the context (financial, relational, housing, etc.) matters.


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An orgasm a day may keep the partner away.

Anything that happens in your life can be hanging from your penis.

Anything that happens in your life can be hanging from your penis.

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

Fly solo responsibly.


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'sex drive' is less important than 'sexual motivation'.

Anything that happens in your life can be hanging from your penis.

'sex drive' is less important than 'sexual motivation'.

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

Wanting to desire sex is as, if not more, important as desiring sex.


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What would your vagina say if they (she?) had a voice?

What would your vagina say if they (she?) had a voice?

'sex drive' is less important than 'sexual motivation'.

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

Listen to your body.


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My best advice for the wedding night?

What would your vagina say if they (she?) had a voice?

My best advice for the wedding night?

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

Go to bed and don't have sex.


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try a low-porn low-masturbation diet.

What would your vagina say if they (she?) had a voice?

My best advice for the wedding night?

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

Have some more sex.


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tell me about your best and most memorable sexual experience.

tell me about your best and most memorable sexual experience.

tell me about your best and most memorable sexual experience.

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

Was it more to do with the intensity of your orgasm? or the setting and context?


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Focusing on 'not going soft' doesn't maintain your erection.

tell me about your best and most memorable sexual experience.

tell me about your best and most memorable sexual experience.

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

Unless you're turned on by thinking about flaccid penises.


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Sex doesn't end with orgasm.

Question: Do 'men think about sex every 7 seconds'?

Question: Do 'men think about sex every 7 seconds'?

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

Hang in there for a while.


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Question: Do 'men think about sex every 7 seconds'?

Question: Do 'men think about sex every 7 seconds'?

Question: Do 'men think about sex every 7 seconds'?

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

Answer: Not even during sex!


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Desire is usually triggered.

Question: Do 'men think about sex every 7 seconds'?

Partnered-sex is like co-driving a car with two steering wheels and two accelerator & brake pedals.

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

The important question is:

What turns YOU on?

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Partnered-sex is like co-driving a car with two steering wheels and two accelerator & brake pedals.

Partnered-sex is like co-driving a car with two steering wheels and two accelerator & brake pedals.

Partnered-sex is like co-driving a car with two steering wheels and two accelerator & brake pedals.

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

Co-ordination, communication and practice are necessary. And you may have a few accidents in the beginning.

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The first few times you have sex with someone new, many things can go wrong.

Partnered-sex is like co-driving a car with two steering wheels and two accelerator & brake pedals.

The first few times you have sex with someone new, many things can go wrong.

Dr Ali Taba - Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic - Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling - Sex Therapy Online

It's normal. You're excited/anxious; they're too. It's new.
Take your time. Communicate.


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don't worry if you don't sexually fancy your partner,

Partnered-sex is like co-driving a car with two steering wheels and two accelerator & brake pedals.

The first few times you have sex with someone new, many things can go wrong.

... as long as you FANCY THE SEX you have with your partner.


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And there's much more!

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